For us, the fourth Sunday of Advent is the real start of the
Christmas season. The excitement is crackling in the air. Can’t you feel it? A
baby is about to be born. A birthday to celebrate. A new life to love! Many of
my most favorite family traditions center around Christmas Eve. Yes, we attend
Mass, have a delicious Christmas Eve dinner, open gifts, prepare the hearth for
Santa and crank the Christmas music. But there are a few things in particular
that have become beloved family traditions that help focus our heart on that
sweet babe, wrapped in swaddling clothes.
We do what any
God-fearing southern family should do, we celebrate with cake and a party!
After dinner, the children place the Baby Jesus in our nativity. Then, we bring
out the dessert and sing “Happy Birthday, Jesus!” I have always been a fan of
birthdays and making Jesus’ big day a BIG day just helps my children refocus on
why we celebrate. In an age of
relentless toy commercials, mail circulars and loud billboards we need to
constantly remind ourselves the simplicity and the generosity of God’s greatest
gift to us.
Speaking of God’s
generosity, we also pray. Over the past sixteen years of marriage, my
husband and I began to notice that our children were fixated on how many
presents they received. I mean, it’s natural, right? We all love to receive
gifts and a holiday designated by society to dole them out just seems like
heaven to a five-year-old. To help center our hearts, and theirs, on the
sacrifice and love that went into the gift giving, we began praying over our gifts.
We pray for those that made them, those that gave them and those that go
without. It’s the grateful heart that we hope to foster.
Without a doubt, this is the most wonderful time of the
year. My greatest hope is that my children will come to love celebrating this
season not for the gifts, sure to be discarded, but for the lasting and eternal
promise of a Creator who will love us for eternity.
Merry (almost) Christmas
Kathryn Whitaker is the mom of five children, wife to pretty amazing Catholic man and a freelance graphic designer. On her blog, Team Whitaker, she writes about what she knows: big families, carpool, her beloved Texas Aggies, prematurity, organizing, party planning and finding God in the details. She is Dr Pepper's biggest fan and loves a good Derby pie. You can find her on Pinterest, Twitter and Facebook.
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I think it was April of this past year when I first learned of your Christmas card tradition. I had yet to file away the ones we had received, so I appreciated your idea then and now that we've adopted something similar, I appreciate it even more. Thanks for sharing such a great idea. It really is a neat way to pray for others. Merry Christmas, Team Whitaker! (and Bonnie!)
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